In a message dated 9/11/99 11:23:17 AM Mountain Daylight Time,
alhuang@hcs.harvard.edu writes:
2. -kun
This is used to address people of a lower or same station as yourself,
in a clearly defined hierarchy. For example, a boss talking to an
employee would likely use "-kun" when addressing the employee. An
upperclassman in school would use "-kun" when addressing a lowerclassman
(please refer to the "-sempai" tag defined later). Note that there is
no gender specification here--a male or female worker speaking to a
junior female coworker may well use "-kun". It is also often used
between good male friends, or from female to male friend, of more or
less equal stature. To be used carefully.
just a side note... in most of the situations I have seen and leaned from,
although kun is not specific to gender, it's uncommon to attach kun to a
female... it may be more common than I think, but I'm not in Japan and
surrounded with everyday situations, so I can't speak as an expert, only with
what I have experienced when dealing with the Japanese culture; anime and
otherwise.