In a Patch of Sunlight
By Marisa Price
For Whitney and Don and Elaine Price
Even after all of my childhood memories have faded, one soul will
remain dear to me and always present in my mind. Whitney, named after
Mt. Whitney, was the best childhood friend I ever had. Unfortunately,
Whitney died at the age of ten, and I have always felt as if it was
my fault, as it was I who decided his fate. It took me two years of
heartache and tears to finally accept Whitney's death, and understand
that my choice was the most humane and loving one possible.
As I am only child, my experiences outside of school as a child
were solitary. I had to come up with my own games and my own
make-believe friends, and I spent more time with my nose between the
covers of a book than I did interacting with people. When my mother
suggested that we would get a kitten when I turned five, I of course
seized the idea of a tiny living friend with vigor. Whitney was a
six-week old kitten, one of a batch, each of the kittens were white
and all had small grey patches on their heads in varying numbers.
Whitney was the one-spot bit of fluff, and he stood out to me the
first time I saw him. This kitten stayed close to his mother's site,
and he did not fight or bite or even meow pitifully as did his more
rambunctious sisters and brothers. Despite his shyness, he looked out
at me with bright green understanding eyes. I knew he recognizes me
as I did him, when he slowly got up on teetering legs and hobbled
toward me, let me hold him, and cooed a sweet rumble within his tiny
chest. With a lick on my hand and a swat at a lock of my long golden
hair, Whitney won my little girl heart. I had found a kindred soul.
As many kittens do, Whitney brought me as many tiresome chores as
he did hours of joy and contentment. It was my job to feed him and
keep him clean, but I was rewarded with adoration and respect from my
little friend. And together we began to grow; I became a young woman
with golden locks cut short, and he began to grow from a gangly white
kitten with a gray spot on his head into a fine all white cat. As I
progressed in life I had someone always there, although I eventually
made several human friends and didn't spend all my time with Whitney
any more. To most special thing about him was that he always forgave
me, and was always there to comfort at the call of his name. After
all, Whitney was more a human tome than a cat, and even after I
reached my teens I would still sit and tell him my sorrows. He would
sit patiently and listen, his long-furred white tail swaying, and
then rise when I was done and sit in my lap as if to console.
Whitney also had a sense of when he was needed simply for affection.
When I was sick he would wander into the room and curl up on my bed,
spending long hours at my side, keeping an eye on me. I never thought
I would be sitting at his side as he was ill, perhaps going to die.
The first sign of the illness appeared in late 1989. I could feel a
lump at the bottom of one of Whitney's feet. I told my mother, and she
just assumed it was a bruise. But the bruise got bigger and bigger
until we finally sought medical care. And there it was in the x-ray,
shocking in its undeniable black and white. Whitney had cancer, and
the foul thing had crept its way throughout his leg. The veterinarian
told us that his leg had to be removed or the cancer would soon take
over his body. Of course it had to be done, but I felt horrible about
it, and we had been informed that even if the leg was amputated there
was still no guarantee the cancer could be stopped.
The surgery was done, with apparent success, but Whitney's ninth
birthday was no celebration. He hobbled, he could not go to the
bathroom himself, eat, or walk. He was constantly in pain, and cried
out often when he tried to walk a short distance. The pain was
obviously horrible, and there were drugs for that, but what could we
do to ease the mental and physical grief? I felt guilt, horrible
awful guilt, because Whitney had always been there for me, but when
he most needed me I was not there. In his condition he needed
constant care, and I was too busy in school to care for him as he had
done for me. I was sixteen, and parties and homework and boys lured
me away from his side. However, Whitney was brave; he began to try to
overcome his pain and disability. It was an amazing sight to see him
running, yes running, around on three legs. Eventually we were even
able to let him outside of the house again, and my parents and I
watched in shocked awe as Whitney jumped to the tops of fences and
over obstacles.
Whitney's recovery brought my family closer together. Both my
parents worked, and I was often home after school by myself. I had
developed my own life, and they were just the people who paid for my
clothes and fed me. My parents and I were friends and loved each
other, but we each respected the other's independence. Through our
love for this miraculous cat we realized that it was all right to
need each other, and to be independent but to know when to set our
pride aside and ask for help. I told them I needed them to be there
for me more often, and they tried their best. In the end, we had more
time for each other and we have been a closer family ever since.
Whitney was a testimony of love overcoming all. He was happy and
healthy, loving and loyal. But there are some things no one can
overcome, no matter how much love is poured out, suchas that creeping
cancer that has killed so many that were dearly loved by the world.
And so, it all unseen crawled up his veins and quickened in his
blood. Whitney is dead. He died of cancer in 1990.
I began to notice small lumps all over Whitney's body, on his head
and on his sides. You could not touch him without feeling the hard
tissue bumps under his skin. He grew weaker and weaker, I had to hand
feed him and watch him at all times. But it wasn't working, he grew
worse. There was a loud rattle with every breath and every gasp was
as if it were his last. I finally could not stand it anymore, I saw
him laying, chest vibrating, horrible noises emitting from his
throat. I took Whitney into the doctor. Just me. And they killed him.
The X-rays again showed me what I did not want to see: huge lumps in
his small lungs and all over Whitney's body. The veterinarian said he
could give him drugs to ease the pain, but even with those drugs he
could only last a week more, if that at all. Or, the veterinarian
told me gently, he could end Whitney's misery. I cried and denied
hysterically the facts. I called my mother and father and begged
their advice. I was seventeen but a child again, I could not think or
understand. Everyone told me to end it. If I loved him I should end
it.
I held Whitney in my arms one last time before they took him
away. I felt his softness and his warmth, his hot breath as he kissed
me to tell me it was all right. A rough, familiar kiss. I felt as if
he did not know what was to be done. How could I tell him? Clots of
hair fell around me as they took him away. I was inconsolable as I
walked out to my car to drive home, and I carried the empty cage in
my arms, knowing my friend would in a moment be gone forever. Whitney
was my brother and my comforter, my companion and my confidant. I who
loved him best, I who needed him most, felt as much his executioner
as the veterinarian who would give him death.
I had Whitney cremated as I could not imagine the worms and bugs
eating away at his already destroyed body. I wanted Whitney buried at
home, in the front yard where he had always love to lie in, amidst
our flowers and trees, enjoying the warmth of the sun. Whitney came
home in a cedar box, locked with a golden lock with no key, and a
plaque that simply said "Whitney, The Best Cat". It was as if Whitney
had been locked out of my life forever.
It took me two years to overcome Whitney's death. It was as if part
of my soul was destroyed on that day he died. I felt grief and guilt,
and only in maturity did I realize that I had made the best possible
decision. I will always wish that Whitney was still alive, or even
that I could have given him the gift of life. Yet it was Whitney's
time, and I can now believe that he died knowing that I loved him.
After all, Whitney was a very intelligent cat, and he was more to me
than the average human. Whitney was a true and loyal friend, not
often found in any species. I am sure I shall meet up with Whitney
again, in the glory of whatever follows this mundane life. I can see
him waiting for me, relaxed and whole, in a patch of sunlight.