Someone asked (sorry, I lost the attribution):

     Hi hi, it's me again! Anyway, I wanted to ask some less than
cherrful question/questions. When ppl in Japan visit late relatives
(or fiancees, in this case), what do they do? What is the grave like?
Is it any different from the American culture? (Anyone that's
asking, this is for AOFA)

In addition to what Caroline and Jon wrote, sometimes there's a small
picture of the deceased in the headstone.


Jeanne Hedge

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